My DSD seems very insecure about her Dad's love for her. She seems to be constantly craving his love and affection which I totally understand but recently she's started creeping in to our bedroom at night and cuddling up to DH.
If she was 2 or 3 fair enough, but she's nearly 10! I just don't feel comfortable with it at all.
I mean what if I was dressed indecently? Or not dressed at all? What if me and DH were having a bit of fun when she walked in?
The problem is I don't want to upset her and neither does DH.
We have 19 month old twins and if one wakes up in the night we usually end up putting them in our bed as we don't want them waking the other kids up but I can see that to DSD that could seem like favouritism ie 'Dad loves them more than me'.
I feel so uncomfortable with it that I have got up and gone and got in to bed with DS (4).
DSD is really sensitive about anything I say or do, she gets upset really easily, so I know it needs to come from DH but he doesn't wake in the night and then doesn't say anything about it in the morning.
AIBU to feel uncomfortable with it?
Would IBU for me to put a lock on the door?
I can cope with the obsessive touchy-feely behaviour during the day time but I really think she needs some boundaries when it comes to night time.