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Advice on how to handle possible school bullying issue

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FedupofTurkey · 06/10/2014 22:28

Ds has just started secondary school where dss is. They get on well. Ds has settled in well - he's a chilled child who gets on with it and happy in his own company. He doesn't feel the need to be in the popular gang and he's made a few friends, he particularly gets on well with one boy. Whereas previously he would stick with his step-sibling.

Dss, though lovely, follows the crowd, always has a drama. Dss has said ds' friend is being bullied by his friends brother.

I asked ds but he doesn't think so. Also I had a chat with ds' mate and whilst this boy is not particularly nice to him he's not being bullied.

This boy today accused ds' mate of saying he was bullying him. I don't think ds' friend has said anything, but possibly dss has started a rumour he has. I think dss is slightly jealous ds has settled in well and has made other friends therefore not relying on him iyswim. Though this is my gut instinct, I have no evidence.

Whats would you do - i don't want to make things worse for ds' friend but equally i don't want him upset by rumours that he hasn't started.

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Neverenoughhoursintheday · 06/10/2014 22:55

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NiceAndAccurate · 07/10/2014 09:51

Sorry, but what? I have no idea who is who and who is supposed to be bully whom (or not as the case may be).

On the face of it, it sounds like playground stuff that you'd be best keeping out of.

purpleroses · 07/10/2014 10:08

Just thank DSS for letting you know, but ask him not to get involved with DS's friends.

And keep talking to DS to make sure he's happy and encourage him to make friends as widely as possible

LeftHandedMouse · 09/10/2014 11:45

What purple says.

Good to share if DSS is concerned or unsettled by this, but if they're not in the same friends group what happens in DS's circle of friends is really only DS's concern.

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