That's it really.
My ex left when ds was 4. He pays maintenance directly into the bank for ds, every month. It was £250 for the first 6 years. I then asked for a rise and has gone to £280 for the past 3 years. I have no idea whether ex has had a raise at work but, I'd like to increase to £300 a month. Ds 13 now, growing fast! I seem to spend a fortune on shoes ATM! Just wondering.