im worried its going to drive him away.i have 4 kids,my 8 month old he has pr for,he sees my 3 yr old as his own(he has no contact with his natural father) but my 7 and 8 yr old were seeing their father untill i met my dp and he(my ex)started causing trouble which ended with him punching my dp in front of all the kids.
things have been stressful since the start of the school hols,dp thinks ds and dd1 dont do enough round the house for their age and that they should be out playing rather than watching tv all the time.i have to admit that while i was pg with dd2 i let dicipline slip as i was depressed and didnt have the strength(i was on my own just trying to get through).
dp doesnt shout at them and would never hit them but hes starting to feel like a slave and its causing probs for us and i dont know what to do.