wtf - i will not be changing dd's bedtime!

[MsColour]

Dp's ex texted him last night complaining that we let dss stay up until 8 when she sends him to bed at 7.30. Dp said well we can't exactly tell him he's got to go to bed before my dd (they are the same age). So she says shouldn't we be putting my dd to bed earlier then!

We didn't have dss Tuesday night when we were due to because we were worried about ds waking in the night with his coughing and disturbing him. So I get judged for not taking time off work when she didn't even know the full story.