My DH has a private arrangement with his ex for maintenance. He pays over what he would have to via the CSA and several extras for DSD in addition to the regular maintenance payments.
His ex has emailed asking for him to provide a signed document stating what maintenance he pays and when. He's confused why she needs this as maintenance was agreed during his application for an SRO last year and the agreement is attached to the SRO documentation along with a parenting plan. There have been no changes to the agreement and he's always paid in full and on time.
Ex's maternity leave is about to run out and she has decided not to return to work. She says she needs DH to provide the document in order to claim JSA. Is this true? I was of the understanding that maintenance doesn't affect JSA claims. Does anyone know why maintenance has to be declared on the Income Support application form?
His ex had made several veiled pleas for money recently including telling DH she could no longer take DSD to school as her car had broken down and she couldn't afford to fix it. DH was never married to her and is reluctant to get into paying for anything other than things directly related to his DD because frankly, once he goes down the route, where does it end? Ex has several loans out at any one time and is generally, very bad with money!
I admit, I'm a bit suspicious.