Me again!
DP and his ex had a rather acrimonious divorce, and despite it being adultery on her part, she seems to have come out of it rather bitter towards my DP.
As such, she was not cooperative through the divorce process, and does not communicate more than absolutely essential stuff regarding the children. Ignores communications for DP, doesn't consult him on anything, we get all info second hand from kids, etc...
Since I have been with DP he has always said he doesn't understand why she doesn't do the right thing for the sake of the children and talk to him and communicate with him.
Bizarrely, out of the blue last week, she texted him suggesting they meet up and talk like grown ups for the sake of the children.
We were chuffed to bits thinking this would be really positive for the kids.
Then randomly through the side feed on Facebook as we have a mutual friend, I saw she'd put a status update saying "Done what I've been dreading for ages. Arranged to see the kids dad. Time to put him in his place".
This has made me really worried as it doesn't sound like she has the kids best interests at heart at all, and that she's got some beef with DP. Not being biassed, but she has nothing to put him in his place about - he is a good dad, fair, pays the right amount of CSA on time never defaulted, does everything by the book as far as I can see, and would do more if she'd let him...
Should I be worried or do you think it was just bravado to her mates on Facebook?
Their meeting is on Wednesday and I'm really concerned...