I have kids, my partner has kids. We've not rushed into things, been together for 2 years and are due to get married in another 2 years. Most kids are happy and looking forward to us all being together. One is totally against it - very angry, physically towards us and the other kids and verbally, saying very hurtful and untrue things. Threatening to stop the wedding etc.
I imagine he is concerned as it will mean a house move to a different area/school for all of us. My kids are worried about this too but are handling it without major issue.
It is putting pressure on my partner, me and the rest of the family as we're in constant conflict with him.
There are no ex's around, so its not that he's hoping they will get back together.
What would you do, would you go ahead and still get married?