My ex has just told me that he and his DP are expecting a baby in August. I am happy for them but he also explained that it would mean he won't be able to spend much time with our DD(8) and DS(4) once the baby arrives as his DP will find that too difficult. He only sees them every second weekend and often has work commitments so even misses some of those weekends - so it is not very much. I have mixed feelings as I know that he is worried about his DP as she suffers from despression and is concerned how she will cope with motherhood. So I certainly don't mind supporting him during the time as I want his relationship to work. But I am also concerned about our children.....naturally they love the time they spend with him and are excited about the baby and I know not seeing him will be very upsetting for them. I know that he wants to see our kids but I feel that he is under alot of pressure from his DP. She also wants to move about 4 hours away even though he wants to stay close to the kids. I don't want to interfere with their 'lives' but I feel that I need to make him aware that DD and DS need him and I feel he will regret if he only follows what his DP wants. I know his so well and know that he usually acts first, thinks later and usually regrets!!!! I don't think his DP truly understands his feelings towards his kids and while the situation is not ideal, their relationship has a better chance of succeeding if she accepts his children and encourages the relationship with their father. Any advice?