So me and DP have been together for 2&1/2 years, I have DS who was just a baby when we met so DP is like his dad, DP has 2 kids age 5 and 7 and we're expecting our first baby together.
In our time together we've never had a holiday together as it would mean going in school holidays which we just can't afford and as a child from a broken home myself I know i didn't like it much when my dad went on holiday without us so I've always said that we shouldn't go away without them.
BUT this year is going to be the last year I can take my DS away outside of school holidays as he'll start school next year and the idea of a few days away when baby is little is quite appealing, beats sitting around at home washing bottles and going to playgroups talking about babies day in day out.
So now I'm wondering whether it would really be so bad if we just got a cottage somewhere for a few days?
Basically we either get a cheap break just the 4 of us or we don't get a holiday at all.
The inlaws are taking DP and his 2 to Disneyland next month so they will still get a holiday with their dad this year but I still don't want them to feel left out if we take my DS and baby away.
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missduff · 18/04/2012 11:47
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