so basically i had so much trouble with my sd i feel relived at saying no more! every time i raised a problem i was being a cow according to him and suddenly every thing my child did was wrong. she has accused me of doing so many things slamming fingers in a door, slapping her all untrue. she told me i was a selfish bitch on her birthday because we couldn't afford to buy her a bike. she has spat on my child stolen from her and guess just wanted to say am sad my marriage is over but thank god she is over.