It was my BF's ex's turn to have their DD this NYE.
A couple of weeks before Christmas she told BF she had decided to go out with her mates had to work on NYE during the day so could he have DD during the day and for NYE night too?
BF said no, cos we had plans. So she ended up asking BF's mum, who agreed to have DSD.
Over the whole 10 days including Christmas and new year, BF's ex had DSD for 2 nights. By her design.
Is that normal? What mother wouldn't want to be with her DD as much as possible over Christmas?
And just to really top it all off, I found out that her and my BF bought each other token Christmas presents. Nothing big or expensive, just a novelty mug sort of thing. Gesture of good will. No hard feelings. Isn't it great that there's no animosity, etc, etc...
But it reallllllllly pissed me off. Why should she get a present from BF at all when she's so selfish and not that bothered about their daughter?
When she decided to break up their family, she forfeited her right to get bought presents by my BF, no? She doesn't get to have that any more. My BF is a wonderful, kind man, so I understand why he just wants to keep the peace and for there to be no bad feeling.
But I don't think she deserves him being nice to her. And I want her to suffer some bad consequences for the choices she's made. Because at the moment it feels like everyone around her (BF, her DPs, MF's DM, me!) just bends over backwards so she can do what she wants, and they kiss her arse in the process (presents) because she's the gatekeeper to DD.
Really gets on my tits.
Sorry for hijack but I just really wanted to vent too!