We're supposed to be having SS over tomorrow night. As things stand at the moment, the village roads are really bad (we live in a village, and SS lives in another village about 10 miles away). DH and I both came home from work at lunch time, and it's a good job we did, as it's snowed heavily ever since. What I really want to suggest to DH, is that we postpone (not cancel, heaven forbid) the mid-week access night for perhaps 24 hours, until the roads are clearer.
I'm not trying to stop DH from seeing his son, but just know DH will go to quite ridiculous lengths in hazardous conditions, rather than break the access pattern.
Half of me just thinks I should let it go, and half of me I suggest we defer til it's safe to drive round the villages - surely a 16 yr old wouldn't be traumatised by this ..... ???