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How do I get my daughter to be more competitive in sports?

11 replies

heartbroken22 · 06/10/2024 13:11

She's interested but I watch and she's so polite. I want her to be a little competitive where she's making the tackles etc

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mumonthehill · 06/10/2024 13:14

Honestly I am not sure you can if it is not in her nature. She may lack a bit of confidence and depending on her age that may come. Ds23 has never been competitive but has always played a team sport and just has always enjoyed being part of a team. Ds17 is very competitive in sport and always has been.

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 06/10/2024 13:15

It's not about you.

Scutterbug · 06/10/2024 13:15

Does she need to be? As long as she is enjoying it, then I wouldn’t stress.

Littletreefrog · 06/10/2024 13:17

Is she enjoying herself? It's either in their nature or it's not, she may develop more confidence and a competitive edge as she continues to train/play or she may not. Not a lot you can do about it.

TwigTheWonderKid · 06/10/2024 13:21

Why do "you" want her to be more competitive in making tackles? Surely she's the one playing the sport and it's up to her to play it in a way she feels comfortable and enjoys?

olympicsrock · 06/10/2024 13:23

How old is she?

workplaceshenanigans · 06/10/2024 13:26

She might not be the sort of person who wants to compete in team sports. I shudder at the memory of it myself.

BendingSpoons · 06/10/2024 13:26

I have 2 DC. When they play football, DC1 is polite and holds back. DC2 gets stuck straight in. DC2 is the better player but DC1 is a great team player in terms of passing the ball, encouraging etc. They are both having fun and getting exercise.

Waitingfordoggo · 06/10/2024 13:28

Does she enjoy it? If so, I would just let her continue as she is. If not, then let her stop the activity and try something else.

I have never enjoyed team sports and am not remotely competitive. I tried a few sports as a youngster but never cared whether I won or not 😂 (I am competitive with other things- board games and weightlifting for example!)

heartbroken22 · 06/10/2024 13:33

I'm glad I posted thank you guys. She's starting to enjoy netball but didn't really enjoy football.

In netball she's had 3 games and now on the 4th she's getting a little confident. I was a bit worried that she was wasn't getting the ball enough...if not hardly ever...but I guess it's something that will just happen.

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Firenzeflower · 06/10/2024 13:34

Chase her with a flaming stick.

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