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Share your tips on how you prepare your child for a flu vaccination with Public Health England - £300 voucher to be won! NOW CLOSED

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EllieMumsnet · 08/11/2017 12:20

Flu season is fast approaching, which also means flu vaccinations have arrived. Getting a flu vaccination can be a daunting experience for anyone, especially for young children, click here to find out everything you need to know about the children's flu vaccination. Public Health England (PHE) want to know your tips on how you prepare your child to get vaccinated against flu.

Here’s what PHE have to say: “The nasal spray is a quick, easy and painless way to help prevent young children catching flu. Flu can be horrible for little children, and if they get it, they can spread it around the whole family. PHE encourages all parents of children who are eligible to get their children vaccinated. ”

Do you tell them in advance or wait until they get there? Perhaps you let them take their favourite toy to school to use as a distraction? Or do you plan a treat for afterwards so they have something to look forward to?

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Share your tips on how you prepare your child for a flu vaccination with Public Health England - £300 voucher to be won! NOW CLOSED
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arat · 16/11/2017 20:17

Have to admit that I haven't heard anything about it for the past 2 years. If school have done it without my knowledge/consent, I will be furious!

sealight123 · 16/11/2017 21:06

With my daughter I just told her what they do, what the vaccination does and asked her what she thought about it. I find Cbeebies Get Well Soon is a great program to show kids as well who are worried about the doctors, injections or vaccinations

twinklenic · 16/11/2017 21:19

My youngest is 4 and has never been offered this ? She is quite good with things so i think she would be fine with taking the spray too

Beeziekn33ze · 16/11/2017 21:35

Just never say 'It won't hurt!' Never use the H word or suggest that you're going to see the nurse or doctor for anything other than an interesting check up. Prepare by explaining that it us ok for them to touch your DC and you'll be right there with them.

svalentine60 · 16/11/2017 22:08

I tell them in advance which i think is a fairer way to do it. To suddenly have it sprung on them on the day makes it much scarier.

PussCatTheGoldfish · 16/11/2017 22:12

I let mine know it might tickle their nose and that was it. And they both had them at school.

DD2 had to have the jab for a couple of years so the nasal spray is a doddle!

sweir1 · 16/11/2017 22:16

We use bribery. I usually find chocolate works!

LeeR1985 · 16/11/2017 22:37

I always tell my daughter in advance. She's thankfully not scared of needles so its never an issue. She knows it can be a little painful but its beneficial for her

sbruin1122 · 16/11/2017 23:05

win them over with a treat! Chocolate!!

maclinks · 16/11/2017 23:18

When mine where small, I did what I do for my patients, I think it is important not to lie. Talk about the benefits so they understand why and tell them it might sting for a moment but it goes of quickly. Plain sailing, I think if you are all tense as parents about it your kids pick up on this, and it all makes it worse, make it matter of fact and casual.

DesignedForLife · 16/11/2017 23:29

Talk to them beforehand and explain the medicine will help them not get ill. Make a big deal of going to see the nurse - make it an exiting trip out.

Queenofthedrivensnow · 17/11/2017 00:09

I told the dds (5 and 8) it was just like the kennel cough vaccine they watched the dog have recently. Also a nasal spray. They thought this was hilarious and totally accepted it. Apparently it makes you sneeze a bit which is also hilarious when you are little Grin

jimcocallis · 17/11/2017 00:57

Get the child to go along with a grandparent. Grandparent first.
No grandparent - so be brave, don't worry mum/dad will be with you.
Jim

peanutmum111 · 17/11/2017 03:07

In our house, everything is just fitted in as normal.
We have role play at home, shopping, doctors, nurses, hospital, dentists and so on.
All these people have jobs to do and help us.
As new experiences become necessary they are included in the role play. They have the opportunity to ask, we have the opportunity to explain WHY, WHAT WILL HAPPEN, .................
Always be ready to answer questions truthfully without scaring them

Keeccles · 17/11/2017 11:28

It was quite tricky to prepare my daughter as this year she had it at school but I wasn't told when it would be! I just talked about the process generally and that she should avoid touching her nose too much afterwards! She has had it before so wasn't phased. The first time she had the nasal spray, I remember explaining how they would gently pop something up her nose and we practised sniffing together! We made it a little game :)

littlemonkeyz · 17/11/2017 11:43

I think it's important and responsible to get it done, not all children and adults have good immune systems which also puts them at risk if you don't get it done. We have a matter of fact discussion with my son, explaining that it will stop him or others getting poorly. When he was younger, he used to get a small treat afterwards for being 'brave'.

Pigeonpea · 17/11/2017 13:48

Nope!
Not for us - various reasons, the data isn't strong enough for me to consider it and with multiple allergies, vaccines just trigger allergic reactions and I have to really weigh up the pro's and con's, especially after my little one had full blown Rubella after the MMR and 3 GP's came to examine her and all were shocked....... PHE were involved, not nice at all

Winningbeauty · 17/11/2017 15:46

My boy is still very young, I will tell him that we are going to the gp's but he does not understand.

I will always hold him close, he's such a good boy with injections. Then I hold him close and speak softly and him whilst rubbing the injection site to soothe him.

AIMOND · 17/11/2017 16:38

I'm just honest with the kids and say it might be uncomfortable and they might be poorly afterwards. I went with them to the doctor's rather than them having it at school though.

sophiefx · 17/11/2017 19:06

Explain that me & daddy have both had it, not making much deal about it and reward them afterwards!

phillie1 · 17/11/2017 19:45

Explain why they need it and why it is important to have it, and give them a reward for being brave afterwards

tabbaz123 · 17/11/2017 20:10

All children are different and most parents know the best approach for their child - I found that being honest, open and informative worked but as I said I appreciate that this is not the same for everyone

BGcat14 · 17/11/2017 20:39

I think it's good they know it's coming, as if it is a surprise/shock to them you may not know how they will react. Working in a school I've seen some absolute meltdowns and lots of questions why they have to, so getting parents to support in this would help I think. Of course, everyone knows their own children so as long as you consider the best approach and plan how to manage it, that is only a good thing Smile

rhinosuze · 17/11/2017 21:20

I explained it before because I was worried she would be scared otherwise. I did also try a nasal spray on her myself so she knew how it might feel - funnily enough she preferred the doctor doing it!

hannahbjm · 17/11/2017 21:50

I explain beforehand and the reasoning but i dont make much of a fuss about so not to worry. As all his friends did too he wasnt worried