My son is a young adult with severe learning disabilities. He attends a few sporting activities aimed at people with disabilities like him. My son would have some behavioural problems which we are always trying to cope with and he is also waiting for assessment for ADHD. One of the other parent/carers doesn't like my son, she never claps or shouts when he performs well, even though she'll shout encouragement to everyone else. She also has made a few remarks to me about him but I just ignore it, even though I find it hurtful. I also find her quite snappy with me. The other week we were at a fundraising meeting and she was looking for a venue and I said I had a contact at a local one and I could ask about it. She shouted really loudly "No! No! Don't speak to them. Under no circumstances go behind my back and speak to them." I was a bit taken aback and replied that of course I wouldn't, I was only trying to help. She said she would sort it herself as she also had a better contact. I said OK that's fine but I was upset by her tone and manner. Fast forward to this week and we were at another sporting event, waiting for the athletes to finish. My son came up behind me and grabbed my waist and make me jump. He then proceeded to step beside me, and to me it looked like he did the same to her but she screamed "Don't u dare touch me! How dare u touch me. Don't ever do that again!" I said sorry what did he do and she said he grabbed her bottom. I apologised to her and berated my son and said it was inappropriate. I would have liked to discuss it calmly. But she kept on screaming at him right in his face over and over and my son kept saying he didn't understand so I said I'm going to leave now. Now I know what he did was highly inappropriate and unacceptable and I'm not condoning his behaviour. I don't even know why he did it as he never has any interaction with her. She has reported it to the safeguarding officer. My son was due to attend a different sporting activity tomorrow but I feel we can't attend as she'll be there and will probably talk about what happened even though this is a different sport and not connected. I am angry at my son but I also feel like the lady didn't handle it well. I would never have done that to her child. I would have said don't do that please and then spoken to her in private. She yelled at us in front of a few other parents and I am so humiliated. I can't stop crying.