I haven't posted for ages but struggling with parent views to AR because I don't know if it is appropriate to share concerns and don't want to breach trust.
DS2 has ASD. He doesn't talk at all about feelings/relationships etc. Since around age 10 he has 'secretly' identified as a furry. He's now 16. He had an online girlfriend from his internet school last year but either she was also into furries or he kept it up anyway. Disturbing internet activity. He also had stuff on his phone that described young boys giving oral sex to older men. He is very closed but when I asked him about a recent amazon delivery he said it was a sex toy.
On a parental level I don't know how to deal with this. He is now at 6th form but it getting no pastoral support. Do I mention this stuff at AR and if so, how?