Can anyone advise?
My son is 21 and has asd. He’s an only child. I’m 60. He has just started part time work which he’s doing ok at. He has a PA who helps him. He’s never had friends or a girlfriend. He’s curious about sex and i noticed a big payment had gone out of his Apple Pay acct. to access a soft porn site.
I had a look. Nothing horrendous just photos and short videos of scantily clad women. Models, doing stuff like cleaning cars or swimming in an outdoor pool. I was quite relieved. He was mortified but I had to ask him what it was because I “oversea” his bank account online and it was a very hefty amount.
We’ve talked about it. I’ve said it’s natural he’s curious etc and offered to buy him a few magazines or some such. DS WILL NOT hear of me speaking to his dad!
What would you do? Any recommendations? Any advice?
TIA