At breaking point.
Have had to contact SS (been advised to by various bodies for some time) and spoke with child disability team worker today. Autistic teenage DC is abusive and violent towards me (and to a lesser extent DH) and verbally abusive to her younger sibling, occasional hitting too. Has been like this for some time, but I keep thinking there would be improvement any time as new medication took hold but it’s not happening.
Was told it Carers Assessment wasn’t worth it because it took a while to complete and be assessed (around 42 days) by which time my DC may be better (with new medication) and in any case all they could do would be offer respite care by how can that work if DC is refusing to leave the house?
I clearly said I can’t cope, but only advice is to call police.
Are they obliged to give an assessment? I wanted to be sure before I pressed the issue.
Many thanks.
*Also have this thread in Chat, but no responses there 😞