Re-posting on busier board!
The theme of my experiences with asking about statementing, ever since my son was in primary school, goes pretty much like 'Oh... If you'd asked a year ago/six months ago/five minutes ago/whenever it was someone else's responsibility ago, we absolutely would have supported that. But he doesn't need it now.'
Even when my son had been Home Educated for two years and had no options at that time without statementing they refused. They said statementing a 14 year old who wasn't likely to go back into mainstream education wasn't 'cost effective'. But he couldn't go back into education without it!
Now I've found a course for him that he really likes but the transport is tricky, taxi provision would be fantastic. He will not speak to people he doesn't know when I am not there, including bus drivers. So I'm faced with having to accompany him on two buses there and back every weekday, and sit in a library all day until it's time to collect him.
The difference now is that he has a plan for his future, and it involves many years of education. Do you think I have any chance?
(It's Oxfordshire County Council by the way, in case any of you have had dealings with them. If you have, can you recommend the best person to speak to? Thanks!)