Ds is 20 and has aspergers, dyspraxia and dyslexia, and is still burying his head in the financial sand and i just dont think i can do anything more for him.
He is rubbish with money, he has stolen from me, taken huge interest pay day loans, secretly got and spent to the limit on a credit card and run up 2 bank accounts to their maximum overdrafts.
i thought we had finally sorted it but this month he has come to me in a panic wanting money. I have asked why and to sit with him to see what has gone wrong again, (i have had his bank card so i thought he couldnt spend) but he is refusing to show me what the money has gone on.
i am refusing to help unless he does.
so stalemate
i am worried that he is taking out debt and using our home address to get credit that he cannot pay.
he has gone for a walk and im here feeling shit. Yesterday i spend the entire day at uni with him for his DSA assessment and sorting out his accommodation.
today, i feel like i have no choice but to ask him to leave.
help.