Does your son or daughter have a desire or fantasy about being young
I know my son s Age might be a bit old for this forum but I'm getting worried.
He has this desire or fantasy about being young. I don't know what or how its happened.
Could it to be with childhood up bringing. Something what might have triggered this thing off?
He was born 3 months early. Blind in one eye. He only weighed a bag of sugar. From this instead of being with his mum. He was in a incubator. With tubes all over him. And there was me tired all the time. He even moved hospitals. From Lincoln then Leeds Then the one in Sheffield. So the first months wasn't the best for him.
Paul didn't start talking till he was 3. He used to say one word aaaaaahhhh. All the time
It took quite a while being dry at nite time. He was out of nappies when he was 5 or 6. He had a blanket with him till he was maybe 7 or 8. He sucked his fumb till he was in his teens.
Could it to do with the fact his father or my husband did the normal thing. Work pub work pub. I remember him getting really angry because he was eating with his fingers not a knife and fork. Think he must have been 4 or 5 when it happened.
He had trouble at school he did the teachers couldn't control him he got mad because he couldn't see very well. His spelling was quite low age so was his reading. He did better has he got older. I'm sure he got picked on now and again.
Well what happened the other month he was messing about on line chatting up lady es. He was chatting to one lady. He pretended he wore a nappy for bed.. The lady didn't be-live him. So she said she phoned me at work to see if he does or not.
Paul freaked out he did he went in a field with a knife and a bottle of whisky. And he took a overdose of tablets. Because he was worried what people would say or think about it.
Hes 24 now his brother who's 16. He will do good in life. Might go in the army or something. His sister shes 21 and shes in Australia doing university .
Paul just works in factory.
So maybe that's why he wants to be young again.
I know is age is over 18. But maybe theres a child who's smilier to Paul His brother and sister seem to have life sorted. Paul is still struggling a bit. Just has he was when he was born.Another factor is that he doesn't seem as close to me what his brother or sister does. He just goes in his room on his PC or video game goes to work. At least the other 2 chat to me have conversation's about things He has talked to some professional people about his feelings. But i don't think hes strong enough to chat to me about it. I know its a bit weird topic But maybe theres a child who has something smilier to Paul
THANKS SILV