Those targets do not sound smart tbh! If they want him to read all 45 HFW, maybe it would be better to work on getting him able to sit down and be comfortable in his environment? No child can learn if they are constantly stressed.
A SMART target might say: DS will read new HFW at a rate of 1-2 per week. These will be recorded in a home-school practice book. The words will be accompanied by symbols initially. DS will change words weekly and return to challenging ones x weeks later.
Recognising and naming feelings - who does that help? Happy and sad faces don't tell us much as humans we have a wider range of emotion than that! Maybe something like: DS will start to let us know when he is in pain or upset. He will start to do this using a picture board using a peg or pointing. His use of the board will be recorded in a home-school book and in place consistently at home and school.
DS will use visual timetables to help him manage his feelings of anxiety about the events of the day. This will be prominently placed and accessible in the school and home environment. To help DS feel ownership of his daily routine, he will be responsible for removing pictures and placing them in a "finished" box. He will do this with 1-1 support initially.
Yeah, my IEPs are always pages long, what of it. :p
I feel that IEPs should be for the child, to recognise and remove barriers for them in accessing education. NOT for the benefit of staff, whole school targets etc. THe ones I have outlined above explain why stratgies need to be in place.
I guess to get firm, you might need to write to the school, officially, copy in the SEN govenor. State what you expect from an IEP/ school and what you are getting. GIve them smart targets - specific requests, a definite time frame within which you expect a response.
I've only done all this from the teachers' side of the fence, you might want to get Star or Claw or Debs to help with the parent perspective. x