Had result from Ind MS School

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They wont accept ds, not because he is capible acedemically or behaviours are fine

BUT

because the other parents dont want children with SN's at their school WTF???

They dont want to be seen as SN school only as acedemic!! DS further ahead of those sick saddo's kidos anyway!!

right wing fachist psychopaths me thinks!

what is sad is that no parent knows what is ahead of their kiddos and to 'look down' on anyone is just ...well like you said zapostrophe ...disgusting!

So glad they didnt accept ds This is the second 'middle class white' school ds has had these communications about not being wanted because of ds SNs!

Well they need educating for sure, but not by your ds. Better discover their attitude now. So sorry though.

Thats sick. No way would I want any of my children going anywhere with that attitude.

And anyway, isn't that illegal?

Yes of course it is illegal, but who in their right mind would put their child into a school who are actively demonstrating their unwillingness to meet his needs, just to spend the next 4 years erroding his self-esteem, taking your time with paper work and complaints and eventually a highly stressful Disability Discrimination tribunal?

I would report them all the same (simply coz I couldn't live with myself to know I allowed that kind of thing to go unchallenged), but apart from that there isn't much else you can do.

Absolutely no way I would send my chjildren there either

But did they put this in writing?

If not ask them to- come up with some bubble about needing to rpove to LA that you cannot access the palce or somesuch.

Then report. make as big a fuss as you feel able; get a free half hour solicitor appt.

These same people who don't want SN kdis now will be their colleagues, neighbours, in laws in years to come and it has to be stopped.

Yes, did they put it in writing? I would also be a bit cautious about believing their "reason", it may just be an excuse because the school doesn't want anyone with SN. Totally illegal, get it in writing, or any excuse of that sort will be illegal, and send it on to the relevant authorities (and local paper!).

Ugh. Glad you're in the know for sure that it's not somewhere you'd want to send your child.

How shocking, i would be very .

Dd2 has a place at MS, i had a meeting with all the parents of children starting in September, i was told before the meeting not to mention dd2's ASD, not to mention she will be getting 1:1 and i was told to park her pushchair where the other parents wouldn't see .

I know all of the parents anyway and a couple of them know dd2 well. The teacher told me that some people can be very judgey when they hear the word 'Autism' (you don't say?), i told her 'not to worry as i have already grown a thick skin and i couldn't care less what people think'.

If i was you i would go to the local paper.

about 5 yrs ago another boy with asd kicked out for accidently riping the teacher dress and he is doing fab in LEA MS instead.

I think it's 50% school and 50% parents. No it was over te phone....maybe I should ask for it in writingWell if anyone in Vale want to explore the school (only IND MS please do question the HT and go to papers when told the same thing

So I'm off to the rough MS school half mile away with kiddos who are brought up knowing things are not always rosy in life...the other kiddos will get a shock in a few years when they experience real life! How will they cope then if they have SN children which they will cause most of us parents with high qualifications that seem to have children with difficulties...will the grandparents disown them?!

Kama has a funny way of returning the complement when it is at it's cruelest!