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Suella · 15/06/2010 02:08

My SA is 10 yrs & 6 months old and in July he will be coming to the end of yr 5 at his primary school. (He has attended this school for 2 yrs, as I made the decision to move him to a school nearer home.) In July last year SA was diagnosed with childhood autism, he already has dyslexia and this in itself is quite severe. In March this year SA was also diagnosed with ADHD, he only has a short span of concentration and gets distracted very easily and has to be constantly refocused. At school SA is on SA+HF,(PSS and CAT have been on board about 5 mths) but it's his progression that causes me immense concern. When he joined this school he was on a 2b for numeracy - now a 2a; a 2c for reading - now a 2a and a 1b for writing, which throughout the 2yr period has remained unchanged. A very opinionated Ed Psyc came on board in March and said that the school were doing all they can and that she felt that SA could & should try harder; the week after at a caf meeting, the senco and deputy head asked me if I'd considered putting SA on medication to help him concentrate more and that maybe it was something I could have a talk to his consultant about. (I will not go down this avenue till all others have been tried)For the past 2 yrs I have been up and down the school like a yoyo, fighting his corner, trying to be constructive when putting my point across. But I felt that anything I said fell mainly on deaf ears and that it was so hard to get direct answers or such a battle to get any changes implemented, that to be honest not a great deal has altered in regards to SA's lessons over the 2yr period. I honestly thought that when the school had the diagnosis for both of his conditions, that things would change - how naive can you get? SA is a bright child who is very articulate, but more importantly does have the ability to learn (camhs confirmed this through their assessments); it's just their adopted teaching methods and recording formats, eg - writing - that SA struggles to deal with. I also feel that due to SA's problems, they haven't taken on board the extent of frustration he goes through. Even the target settings on his IEP keep coming down not up - first it was to be able to write 5 sentences independently, then it went down to 3, now it is just write sentences because the targets were not being achieved. Anyway, after months of reading policies, procedures and legal rights also talking to parents in partnership and getting an educational advocate from NAS. I am now in the process of applying for an assessment off our local LEA; but one thing bothers me! I don't want the Ed Psyc who has seen SA to do the assessment, if hopefully I get that far. She has gone on her opinion and not fact and although she is supposed to be a professional, I feel an assessment done by her would be somewhat biased. Do I have any say in this, also, should I write this on the requisition before I send it off, stating my reasons for the change?
Thanking You all so very much, Suella.

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IndigoBell · 15/06/2010 08:02

I feel for you. It's all so hard and distressing.

He clearly hasn't made adequate progress according to the SEN code of practice. Therefore I would have hoped he would definately qualify for a statutory assesment regardless of what the school or EP says. Because you can prove that he has been On school action plus for 2 years and has still made virtually no progress.

I'd ring parent partnership and discuss it with them. But I'd definately apply.

Have you tried any dyslexia interventions with him? I know quit a lot about them and could offer well intentioned advice about what to try next....

StarOfValkyrie · 15/06/2010 09:18

Have you a copy of his IEP targets. Try to get hold of them if not.

It sounds like you are on the right track though. You can request an alternative EP, in writing. I can't see why not. Just say you feel relations are not working and you would like a fresh opinion.

Would you mind breaking up your text when you write though. It helps people read it and you are more likely to get responses.

sumum · 15/06/2010 10:13

Hi my ds has dx of adhd and autistic traits and being assessed for asd.

We have gone down the medication route and things are better in school. I realised that school could/would not bend anymore and if he has any hope of catching and keeping up then he needed help to concentrate more.

He does have differentiated work and other coping statergies such as visual timetable, ear defenders and we are looking to get him a computer as he struggles with writing too.
He has no one to one, but does have small group work with ta.

Statements are very very rarly given in our area so for me it's not even worth trying and medication was availbe so we are trying that. I don't feel happy about it and can understand why you want to try other things first.But meds can make a difference so perhaps look at all options especially as your ds is nearing senior school.

Suella · 15/06/2010 15:44

IndigoBell, Thank You for your reply.

I have tried parent partnership, but because SA has what the school class as complexed needs, have found that National Autistic Society have more knowledge and first hand experience in dealing with ed problems, such as SA's.

I would welcome any advice regarding dyslexia.

Over the last 4 yrs have tried numerous things with SA, but found he grew bored & frustrated very quickly.

SA will read for me and is rewarded on effort and not results.

To get SA to write is a lot harder, so I tend to use a chalkboard or white board; to pull away from pen & paper format.

I am prepared to try anything, I just want to bring back some enjoyment and interest in literacy for SA.

Many Thanks.

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Suella · 15/06/2010 16:08

Thanks for your reply StarOfValkyrie.

Sorry about text, as once I started writing I found it hard to stop; But advice taken onboard.

Have all his IEP's, assessment results and reports ready as evidence.

Will request different EP, no harm in trying.

Thanks again.

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Suella · 15/06/2010 16:46

Hi sumum, I will look at medication again in March next yr and this is as you've said, because he is nearing senior school.

I just want lea & school to address his needs more, than what they have been doing.

Thanks.

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pippop1 · 15/06/2010 20:38

Do you type for him? My dyslexic son could achieve more satisfaction if I typed exactly what he said in, for example, a history essay. He also liked to walk around the room while he did this.

You might think that this isn't a good way to work but you can help him do coursework for GCSE like this that is his most efficient method and as long as you only type what he tells you to.

pillsthrillsandbellyaches · 15/06/2010 21:12

hi, sounds like an absolute nightmare.

would home education be an option for you?

there is a talk topic on it.

IndigoBell · 15/06/2010 21:29

Suella Have you read the gift of dyslexia?

The theory about dyslexia presented in it seems very sound to me. It pretty much says dyslexic children have 2 difficulties.

  1. They think in pictures instead of thinking in words

  2. They can move their 'minds eye' to wherever they want.

You have to read the book to understand. And it also has a progamme you can follow to help your son. The programme revolves around making things out of clay - so not the kind of thing he is likely to have done at school already.

If you have already tried this / read this, say so, I have some more suggestions. But Gift of Dyslexia is definately my first recommendation.

Like the other poster, I also type my sons work up for him. But he's only Year 4 at the moment.

pippop1 · 15/06/2010 23:25

Mine's at Uni (engineering) and he sends me stuff to spell check sometimes. The only thing he has to write is exams and he could find a way not to do this if he wanted to but he gets extra time (officially) at Uni and seems to manage.

I did used to tell the teachers at school that I typed for him though. I'm sure that they could tell that it was his own words.

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