My friend is having to have a couple of procedures done in the near future (cp related stuff) and I was wondering, mostly aimed at those with older DC's but open to all answers, if your child was having a procedure done and had a very close friend, would you be offended if said friend asked you to let them know things went OK?
H and I are stupidly close, I really get on with her mum and was contemplating asking her if she'd let me know, give her my mobile number etc. Just don't want to sound and come across as freakishly clingy mate, but want to know it's all gone well, otherwise I will worry. This is the same friend who had the health scare and that was horrible worrying all the time.
So, any answers for me?