And then I'll be ready to start again. I'm so tired.
Ds2 (asd/as) actually right now he's doing really well.. Well you lot know how that goes.
School have already spoken to ed pysch about transition to secondary.. Teacher who is wonderful and knows ds really well has done a fantastic job so far.
It's all about stratagies so all is good.
But ed psych wants to meet ds2s dad.. Which actuallyi don't mind at all... Barring the fact that it is goingto create a whole load of stress... For me and for ds... Oh and the rest of the family.
Exdh is adiment ( sp) that ds is totally NT has poo pooed any issues even with ds2s dyslexia. He and his mother have told ds that the only thing ds has an issue with is lazyness and have really been horrid to ds about it.
So to talk about stratagies so ds will find transition easier into secondary is actually going to be atotal minefield... And barring a rather large meltdown last week at school ds has been doing so well.
I've spoken to camhs, ss, school, senco, teacher, etc etc about these issues and noone can help sort it out.
Ds2 wants to seehis dad.. Which is fine... But due to lots of things we always pick up the pieces here afterwards.. And I'm tired.
I can't say much to ex about it really as he just shouts and yells at me and ds about he should live with his dad.. Putting a huge strain on everyone mostly ds.
And there is the thing with liking rules.. Ds does really well with rules, as you'd expect... So I had him in tears after an argument between him and ds1... Beacause ex has told ds2 that he has to do tell on ds1 and spy on him ( for want of a better phrase).. And that he has to do what my awful exmil ( who has big issues herself) says or he won't be rewarded.. With his obsession toy.
Ds litterally said to ds1 ... If I don't do it dad won't love me..
The list goes on and on... Court aren't doing anything about anything.. And I just want to get ds2 through school where he is a square peg in a round hole and he has enough to deal with ... Let alone this crap.
And so it is all just going to get worse because ex has PR and goes against everything that might be helpful... And ed psych wants to see him.
If you got this far I owe you a big wedge of cake.. Don't expect any answers .. I just really needed to vent.