Well you are at a good school then. Good for you.
I'm not getting into an argument about this but you did advise me to enforce the IEP and to chase provision as if my failure to do this was actually the problem. Lazy, fickle parent leaving it all to the poor overstretched school.
However, by saying this, you misunderstand the nature of SEN COP and a school's legal obligations under the DDA. You are new to your role but I suggest you investigate both. These legal obligations are not for parents to police or enforce, in partnership or otherwise.
Clearly, as a good parent, I do chase and I am active. Anyone spending any time on this board would know that. I have been on courses, bought books for schools, involved relevant experts, held meetings, taken time off work to help with getting DS to school and sorting out problems.
I had a month of him coming home from school at lunchtime every day because sensory problems meant he could not eat in the hall. OT and Inclusion officer suggested alternatives e.g. him eating outside the school hall. Did school do this? No. Their response - we haven't got the resources. I offered to come in. They wouldn't have that either. So, we managed alone. Try and keep freelance work going when your child is home every day at lunchtime.
So do I get annoyed about having to force teachers to do what they are legal obliged to do? Yes. Do I get angry about being lied to about provision? Yes.
Easy example. My DS has a suspected ASD. School have been told by Ed Psych, ASD team, SALT he needs a visual timetable. It took 5 months for this to put up. Why? There are other kids in the class who are worse than him. It is even on his SA+ IEP that he will get 1:1 every morning to help him with this. He NEVER gets this. I do it. I do it every morning. Do I resent helping? No. Do I resent school telling LA or anyone else that they do all these things for him within their budget? Yes.
Schools get money for SEN. Statements are hard to get because LAs say schools have the money. Schools don't want to spend this money on children who are not failing.
So, you are quite wrong. I am not insinuating anything. I am being very clear. My son's SEN are ONLY met because of the work I do and continue to do in badgering teachers to do the basics on his IEP and follow the programmes set up by outside professionals. I also have had to work hard to ensure that the provisions of the DDA
The school gets that money for him. It was not applying it. Even if came out of a 'pot', it has the money. If it does not, and things the child's needs are not being met because of budget restraints, it should apply for a statement. Schools won't do this and this is my reality.
Your reality might be very different. Good. I am pleased for you. But don't assume everyone's reality is yours. Your experience is not typical on this board.
I have never had to say this on this board before but I am going to hide this thread because I find your comments judgmental and that is something we don't generally have here.