got to have a moan sorry....but I am so fed up with reading threads

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where it says, oh if you can't afford to be a SAHM get a job,
now I know they arn't aimed at me...but
how??
who would look after dd if she is sick, school holidyays the one loose BO that means 48 hopurs off school. the high temp that was just cos she was hot but means she is sent home.....
arggggggggggggggg

If you have the IQ of a peanut, it can only mean peanuts are extremely smart.
Anyone who presumes to tell you guys you should work nights or rubbish like that, could you please point me in their direction so I can personally spit in their faces

Oh I have had a few comments about getting back out there once dd starts nursery.

Yes, possibly but not sure I would find a boss sympathetic to me popping out up to 4 times a week to support ds at school when he is not managing. My ex tells me how lazy I am even as I have never had a job since ds was born. No but I did single handedly get a diagnosis, statement and all other input not to mention the hundreds of times I dashed round to school to calm him down when he was going off on one.

I worry as I am on my own and the future is very unclear. Ex h very involved with dc, which is great but I cannot build any kind of career as I am the main carer and can't see how I will ever be able to be financially secure in the future. Even when the time comes to be able to get a job I will be too old to build any kind of worthwhile career.