People here may remember that our lovely DS (now a towering teenager) has had his share of challenges from ASC and from dyslexia etc.
In the last few months he noticed he was losing the ability to see out of one eye. It turns out he has something called Keratoconus, which means the outside see-thru lens bit of the eye is becoming totally the wrong shape and can't focus light any more. It usually spreads to the other eye as well. No-one has a clue what causes it yet.
The Government have decided not to pay for operations to correct it. They want us to wait until corrective contact lenses don't work any more and when he's effectively blind, then they'll pay. . He's in the middle of his A levels - he doesn't need to be effectively blind now or when he's at Uni (if he gets there...)
Or we can pay privately. But even if we do, there's risks as it's fairly new surgery: it can fail, it can leave the eyesight with permanent problems that mean he wouldn't be able to drive. Or we can wait for really major surgery with a transplant and all the problems that might go with that.
We are seeing the specialist again in July for his opinion. What do we do?? It's so nerve-wracking for us as a pair of autistic-spectrum parents, and I don't want to get the decision wrong. DS simply doesn't know either. Urk.