baby has just been diagnosed with DS

[proudmum74]

Hi

We've recently learnt that our beautiful new baby has down syndrome (a shock given the tests in pregnancy indicated a very low risk). Whilst I love her to pieces and can cope with the day to day aspects of her care, I am really struggling to cope with the reality that she has down's and get very emotional / guilty whenever I think about her future. Our families have been great, but I have noticed that some of our friends seem embarrased / unable to cope with this development.

I guess I'm looking for advice from other mothers who have been in a similar position on how they have come to terms with it & what can I do to ensure my daughter has the best possible chance for the future?

Thanks

Great to read, 'Just One More' and helps people like me (a few years behind where you are) to keep a positive outlook on it all :0)

Congratulations on your new baby; she's lucky to have a mother like you!
My DS has a different condition, but like everybody here I think it's important to give yourself time, and try to get as much information as you can.
Also, I have found MN invaluable