It's basically a meeting where everyone who is involved with your child gets together to talk about what he help he will need when starting school.
You could probably take a copy of his latest IEP with you (if your ds has one) but more as a back-up as the other people there will probably already have a copy.
It can be useful to write down a list of things that you think would help your ds. Obviously a lot will depend on your ds' individual needs but the main areas to consider will be things like:
- Visiting the school before the start of the school year.
Most schools will probably arrange this for all children but you might feel that your ds needs extra visits.
Think about whether he will need extra help with this, eg if he's still in nappies, or needs someone to prompt him or give him other help.
- Help within the classroom.
Think about whether he will need 1:1, or special equipment, his own work area, his own timetable etc.
Think about whether he would need support at these times, either to cope with the playground or something like help with eating etc.
- How much time will he be spending at school to start with.
Think about whether he will be able to cope with full-time school when the other children do, or whether he will need to stay part-time for longer. So, for example, I had one ds who was okay to go full-time relatively quickly, and another ds who needed to build his hours up much more slowly.
Also write down any questions you would like to ask the school SENCO or the class teacher. The chances are that many will be answered during the discussions but there might be something that they've missed.
I think they basically have these meetings for any child with SN who is due to start school.