Background: DS1 is 4y 8m. He first saw a (private) SALT at 2y 8m (private because HV wouldn't refer him until he was 3.)
January just past he had a multi-disciplinary assessment, the end of which was a verbal DX from the paed of HFA/ AS/ ASD. I had an impression that she had decided that before she met him.
Last week, the Ed Psych saw him at Nursery, and then came out to talk to me.
She, like me, does not see ASD.
But DS1 has very clear sensory issues, the auditory processing part of which appears to be what has caused his poor speech sounds. His visual stuff is extremely sensitive, his "strong areas of interest" are all visual things (anything with a screen, numbers and letters.)he uses visual schedules for morning/ evening routine and toiletting. He is a Squrimy McWrigglepants, which she noticed as being much more so than an average 4 year old.
He is also bright - tested non-verbal score was 133. She said the verbal stuff tested average, but that she felt it wasn't accurate, as his speech problems/ auditory processing got in the way. So his presentation is patchy, which I know is a hallmark of neurological "things."
BUT he is socialising. In the last 6 months, he has formed a really, really strong friendship, he has started to notice other children and want to play. He directs my attention to things, lots of factors that don't say ASD. In the last few weeks, he has started playing games with figures - proper imaginative play.
He is due for ASD assessment/ final DX in 2 weeks.
I have racked my brains and done lots of reading to try and find something that "fits" my boy - but all I can come up with is the Sensory Processing Disorder (which is not a DX). He doesn't "fit" ASD, ADHD, any of those things.
I am in a pickle, basically. The Ed Psych is concerned that he will be labelled unecessarily (she believes there is over-diagnosis.) I see that, and also have that fear, but he needs SOME kind of DX in order to keep getting the SALT and OT that he really, really needs. It is doublethink! The SALT requested some resources for him and was told she couldn't access it without a DX - how stupid is that exactly?
Anyway, if you have, thanks for reading this essay, hope someone (anyone!) has a similar child and has BTDT!