Hi
Ds1 was taken off gluten back in November last year on the advice of the gp to see if it helped with his digestive problems and poor growth.
I should also point out that at the time we were waiting for an appointment for assessment re possible Aspergers, but although I was aware of the possible link between gluten and ASD, that wasn't the reason for removing gluten from his diet.
Well the results were amazing. After an initial worsening of symptoms, both physical and behavioural, he really started to improve. He was calmer, less reactive, greatly improved eye-contact, generally more sociable and cuddly and went up two trouser sizes and a shoe and a half size (his feet hadn't grown for over a year previously).
I then came on here for advice as he seemed to slip back and had some problems with school. Subsequently we discovered that he had been inadvertently been eating gluten fairly regularly for the previous 3-4 weeks. We removed it and were extra vigilant and once again he improved.
He was seen by a paed in January and given an informal/verbal dx of Aspergers. We are currently waiting for his formal assessment with the local specialised ASD team.
While we were there, the gluten thing came up and the paed felt, based on the results of the exclusion diet, it would be appropriate to have him tested for coeliacs. His appointment for the test is 6 July.
Unfortunately this meant that he had to go back onto gluten for at least three months prior to the test, in order for there to be a high enough level of anti-bodies in his system.
BUT It has been a total nightmare. I feel like I have lost my lovely boy, having only just got him back via the exclusion diet. He is hyperactive, yet spacey, oppositional, defiant, rageful and has almost totally lost eye contact again. He has also been vile towards his younger brother who today came to both myself and dh separately sobbing that he doesn't like ds1 anymore because he is "mean and spiteful and hurts me". So sad when they have always been so close. To cap it all, he has even been mean to his baby sister today and he normally idolises her and wouldn't dream of upsetting her in any way.
I can honestly say that he is worse than he ever was before we did the exclusion diet and dh and I are struggling to cope with his behaviour. Life has descended into a sort of shift-work/rota type thing, with each one taking their turn until they can't cope any more and hands back to the other.
In short, the whole family has been hugely negatively affected and I see in quiet moments that he is suffering so much himself, as he doesn't understand what is happening to him, why he's behaving this way and why Mummy and Daddy are so cross/stressed all the time.
I don't know what to do. My instincts are to just take him straight back off the gluten, but I was told that undiagnosed coeliacs has all sorts of negative health implications and I must have him tested. Honestly though, I don't know how much longer we can carry on like this. Certainly not until July.
Has anyone else been through similar, or does anyone know what the implications would be if we just took him back off the gluten and asked to see a dietician instead of waiting to have the test?
TIA