Hi I'm new to this game. I have a 12 year old who is newly diagnosed with high functioning ASD. She coped with school until this year when she started high school. She's never been that happy in school but academically she's doing brilliantly across the board. The ASD diagnosis has been a bolt from the blue.
She struggled with the high school environment from day one so they had been supporting her in the mainstream autism base on site unofficially because they (and we) thought the issue was simple anxiety.
Now she has a working diagnosis of ASD they have removed her locker in the base and told us that they can't support her any more because there is no space for another statemented child. Her attendance has been sporadic for the whole year and the base has been her rock when she was there.
Their motivation would appear to be to ensure that she is not established in their base so the statement won't name them. They've recommended that I send her to a really big high school with a base which is 20 miles away and is subject to special measures.
If we move her to that school I know for sure she'll refuse point blank to attend. It would be far too much to cope with.
Has anyone got any experience of this or any good advice?