i have an 18 yr old who has a diagnosis of Aspergers, dyslexia and dyspraxia.
he did not have a statement at school but did have access to a TA. She kept him organised and he got good GCSE results. School wasnt great for him but he ended up doing ok.
He has an above average IQ, and shouldnt have any problem accessing the AS and A2 curriculum, except the college he has gone to are being as unhelpful as can be. He has very poor organisational skills, very poor time management, very poor memory. All he needs is someone to help him organise his workload, someone to speak with at the start of each day to tell him where he is and when, and to help him access help from the tutors when he needs it. he doesnt have any of this and is floundering. he is now 20 pieces of work behind. He is capable, but very distressed.
The first year was a wash out. he flunked totally because he was simply left to it. I had several meetings with their SEN dept but they just kept saying that he, like lots of other students, was finding it difficult to access independent learning. They suggested he do 3 years at A level instead of 2.
i said i feared without anything changing the same would happen this year.
Well it has. they think they are fulfilling their obligations to accommodate his disability by giving him a laptop (that his tutors refuse to let him use) a dictaphone(that his tutors refuse to let him use on privacy grounds!) and they did give him a PDA which they have now taken back off him to give to another student.
i am at my wits end with this fucking college. I have contacted Connexions and they are getting an advisor with SEN experience to phone me on Monday, but have said they cannot make the college do anything if they dont want to.
this is blatant disability discrimination and i have told them so. They have asked for a meeting with me next week. i have not formally complained yet but i will if they dont alter their attitude to him. its as if they think if he cannot manage he simply should not be there.
he is into the second year now, with another to go. is it possible for me to move him to another college at this late stage? He says that each college follows a different exam board so he thinks this would be difficult, he has wasted 2 years so far, would he have to start again? if so, and he wanted to go to uni, would he still be able to do that at nearly 21? would he still qualify for student loans etc?
i dont know who to ask these questions to but i will ask connexions to point me in the right direction.
does anyone here have any ideas please?
thanks in advance if you can help. im tearing my hair out here.