Not happy with ds's preschool, the other week meeting with head re future schooling, she hadnt even read salt reports and didnt know ds had severe lang delay (even though i told her when he started in oct and mentioned since), wont do a statement, doesnt know whether to ask ep to come in (ds already under paed for delay, behaviour and autistic tendencies), she isnt helpful at all, we have a meeting 24th march paed, salt, head, me and hv at the school to discuss ds and his future. right so refused s&l unit as ds TOO delayed but head thinks will be fine in ms with no statement, salt say cannot start ds on therapy as too delayed in comphrehension and speech (isnt that a contradiction).
so called parent partnership who agreed this contradicts and will come the meeting with me in 2 weeks. she asked if ds on school actio or school action plus, i didnt know not been told, she said he should be if under other specialists and has sn so said i will find out.
took ds to pre school this pm, i asked ds's teacher if i could have a look at his file, the one where they have to write in to say if ds meeting things etc and ds's salt program, she said no shortly all parents will be invited to go through this so will have to wait, was a bit taken back as thought i can look any time, so went home thats when i spoke to parent partnership.
went to pick ds upasked to spak to head - not avail in meeting, again, last time took me a week to get appoinmtnent to speak to her, ridiculas, so thought will ask his teacher if ds on acion plus, went down corridoor waited with other parents, when ds came out the door i asked a teacher if i could have a quick word about ds, she said just busy getting the children out but if i wanted i can come in and wait, turned to get ds and his teacher now at the door and said very rudely, no you cant we havent got the time we are very busy sorting the children out and r short staffed so no you cat't. I just turned round embarresed walked past the oter parents fuming almost crying.
It seems that the teachers never tell you anythin about your child and when you ask you gt fobbed off, i can never get to see them and speak about ds and his issues.
really feel like i should remove him and put back in old nursery, where the staff were great and could speak to them freely.
but then i have this meeting in 2 weeks, dont know what to do, just trying to help ds and understand myself what the pre school are doing to help but no getting answers, i dont think they are following the program (flimsy one anyway - for next 8 weeks teach ds under and on top - in a group).
please please give me advice cos i really am banging my bloody head on a slab of toughened concrete.