Background.
I have 4 children, 2 with disabilities, DS1 has CP, DD1 has CP, ADHD and LD. I also have Dd2 and DS2.
DD2 is the one we are having huge problems with, she is sooo angry all the time. She is 8 and I have had enough, we have tried all the normal stuff, sticker charts, time out, removing treats, etc etc.
Yesterday morning she was refusing to get dressed (again) and I bent down to go to her level, removed her hands from her eyes, to talk calmly with her, and she hit me. After school she started to strop, I said to stop or she would not be allowed to go to youth club tonight, she carried on. I said 'no youth club' which then produced the major strop, over 1 hour of slamming doors, banging on the floor, screaming etc etc, I had such a headache by the end of it.
She beats up her siblings all the time, I have to remove her from the room about 10 times a day. She just seems so angry and I don't know what to do. My sister said to take her to the GPs, but I am unsure if its my parenting or not. I am actually finding her behaviour much more harder than DD1, who has ADHD