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Early Bird Plus

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debs40 · 01/02/2010 14:22

We had a bit of a breakthrough today at Early Bird Plus.

The class TA comes along and it is clear that no one in the class really understands DS or his needs. She admitted this openly in the group today. She said he never communicated anything to anyone and really got lost in the crowd as he didn't cause any bother.

She admitted to me 'off the record' that he gets no help of any kind at the moment despite being on SA+ - not even in terms of differentiated teaching.

The EBP team are visiting school next week and she said she would have difficulty arguing to be able to attend the meeting. The ed psych running it was astounded. The course is supposed to be there, partly, to help school with strategies.

I felt relieved that my suspicions were true but appalled that this 'outstanding' school has allowed this to go on, despite my constant nagging.

I rang parent partnership who said move schools! They can't attend out meeting on Friday.

I'm sure school will just say 'we're doing the EPB course so you just need to be patient'. But the SENCO (deputy head) told me last week that he is 'secure' in his knowledge of ASD as he worked in an autistic school, so why is he not providing anything for DS?

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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5inthebed · 01/02/2010 16:41

Oh Debs, on your behalf! How can they have thought they could get away with this? Good luck for the meeting!

Marne · 01/02/2010 17:53

How upsetting for you and your DS, i worry this will happen to dd2 (if it isn't happening already) as she is so easy going she could easily fade into the back ground .

debs40 · 01/02/2010 20:13

I know it is so frustrating and depressing. Really, I know they're doing the Early Bird Plus course but why not learn a little alongside it and implement some stratgeies to help him.

He came home for dinner today - because he couldn't think of anything to have in his lunch box - and he was a completely different boy after school. Playing games with us and even doing some writing practise.

I think a lunch time break made the world of difference. Even if he has fun playing with friends, it must be a constant strain to be at school all day

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Squiz · 02/02/2010 16:42

I feel that we may be in a similar situation to you. I'm also on the early bird plus course but the school couln't spare anyone to send! I think unless my son had behavioural problems they let him be - he's mostly doing well at school, and causes no problem so as far as they're concerned he's fine.

He does need help with social skills and social interaction but no-one at school has the time. I am hoping that when he moves up to the next school in 1 1/2 years that he will get more support.My son is not even on SA+ at this school, I don't think he has an IEP or anything. Does your son have an IEP?

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