Hi
I am not a mother, so have not posted on here before, but see that there are discussions for parents of children with disabilities, and thought maybe someone could talk to me.
My cousin and his partner has a little boy with Downs syndrome.
Just found out today that he's taken very ill.
My mother described it as "cramps in his brain" (electrical), by which I assume she must mean some kind of epilepsy. Googled, and seems to me that it must be infantile spasms.
fits with circumstances ( Downs, which seems to be a trigger) and the prognosis they've been given.
Doctors said there's only a one in three chance the medicine will work, otherwise he will remain at current development level ( 5 months).
Has anyone got any experience with this?
I don't really know what I am asking, it's just all so horrible. They had settled into life with him so well, he didn't have any health problems and was happy and thriving, and now this, it's so bloody unfair.
Does anyone know if it's an either/or situation, i.e will he either recover completely or be severely brain damaged, or is there a scale?
How soon will they know if he recovers?
Thanks in advance for any answer.