My DS (dx dyspraxia and probably ASD/AS) transfered to junior school in sept and is now in year 3. He is on school action as his handwriting is very delayed and his behaviour is disruptive ie calling out a lot etc
We havent reviewed his IEP since it was created in Sept and since then i have been keeping a note of additional problems as they have been cropping up and have compiled a letter to send into school. To my mind he is not meeting the targets set in his IEP, particularly his handwriting. He is also struggling with the general level of organisation that is required in year three, ie bringing work home, letters, handing in of completed homework. He cant seem to write to task, often interprets questions wrong, starts on his work and gets told its wrong and has to start again (not good when writing is so tricky anyway). He has no friends and often spends playtimes alone as his social skills are poor and he doesnt seem to be getting any encouragement in making friends or maintaing friendships with the children he moved from his last school with.
We have paed/OT/physio involved and after doing my research i now realise this in itself should mean he is on SA+. I dont know where to go from here....he is bright as a button, top maths, good grades etc but the areas that he struggles with he really struggles with iyswim
Do you think i should keep pushing with IEP and get SA+ on record officially, or should i start down the statement route? How 'bad' does a sitaution have to get to get a statement or can you get a statement, strategies and support in place to prevent things from getting too bad?
I hope someone will be able to advise...this last year really has been hellish, coming to term with ds problems, and navigating the joys of the nhs and school. Now the fug is clearing and i am feeling stronger, i really want to get support strategies in place but dont really know which way to turn tbh!