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AIBU to think MIL doesn't like DS2

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5inthesleighbed · 15/12/2009 11:25

MIL gave me our Christmas cards yesterday, one for me and DH and one each for my three boys. In all the cards she has signed lots of love MIL/nana xxx, except for DS2's which she has signed from nana x. And on the front of everyones card it says With love son/DIL/Srandson, except for ds2's which just says For you Grandson.

AIBU to think she doesn't actually love him, or am I just reading into this all too much?

She's never really been one for DS2, can't cope with his behaviour, and lots of other backround stuff I could bore you with, but annoys the hell out of me.
So AIBU, should I ask her, see if she didn't realise she'd done it? Won't be seeing her until tomorrow.

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meltedmincepies · 16/12/2009 13:27

I agree, if this is the only incidence than it may just have been that the cards were written on different days. You are reading too much into it.

We have had one GM completely missing out dd2 when she was sending money to the dc's, we resolved that by telling her we would split the money up between all 3 dc's, then she said "Oh I didn't realise dd2 would like money too".

Another great GM cannot believe that dd2 actually lives with us and isn't in an institution. That is purely a generational thing on her part, so I bear no grudges.

I'd have no relatives left if I bore grudges

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