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hairyclaireyfairy · 03/12/2009 18:23

Ds is eight has severe autism sld and a host of other problems. He attends a special school.
He absolutely loves fresh orange juice and high juice cordial and will drink it if allowed by the gallon. We have taken to hiding the cordial becase he has found a way of chewing the lid so he can drink it neat !!
The last two evenings he has found the hiding place and as a consequence now has very loose bowel movements.
He is continent of urine but wears nappies for poos.
I got a phone call from the school nurse today saying he has diorreah (sp) and I would have to collect him and keep him off school tom. wWhilst I was there he did a poo in his pants which although a bit sloppy was formed and not runny.
I have spoken to school on many occassions about the fact that he needs to have the option of putting a nappy on and have them available for him to get, he is non verbal.
I have this evening taken him to see our GP who has written a letter stating that this is a dietary issue and that he is certain that he is not contagious.
We are due to have respiter for the whole weekend as we have a family wedding on Sat and my dd and I are bridesmaids.
Should I send him to school tom in a nappy or keep him off?
Bearing in mind if I keep him off school I will have to cancel the respite.
Opinions welcome, oh and he is fine in himself full of beans and has just eaten a massive bowl of spag bol.
Thank you

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2ChildrenPlusLA · 03/12/2009 18:34

You've got a note from your GP right? Tis okay to send him to school then. GP's overrule school nurses!

Poor you though.

silverfrog · 03/12/2009 18:40

you know your ds best, and you are also, i am sure expert at "reading" his poos (sorry, can't think of a better wya to put it!)

dd1 is also dry but poos in nappies, and so I know far more than I ever wanted to about how certain foods affect her bowel movements!

if you are sure (and you sound as though you are, and have a definiote reason for why his poos might be a bit loose) then I'd send him in, along with the note form the GP saying there is no illness to be worried about.

I hope it works out for you

2shoes · 03/12/2009 18:44

I feel for you, this has happened with dd in the past one loose movement and I had to keep her of, and she wasn't ill!!!
I would send him in in a nappy and a note explaining.

Marne · 03/12/2009 20:41

Dd2 is only 3 and at nursery, she often gets a runny bottom due to eating everything in sight, if she has a runny bottom i tend to keep her home, only because i don't think its nice for the people who have to change her and she hates pooing anywhere else but home.

If his poo's are back to normal i would send him in, if not keep him home.

Dd2 ate 2 wax crayons last week so we had some very colourful nappies .

hairyclaireyfairy · 04/12/2009 09:50

THanks all, have sent him to school today, he is absolutely fine and has had a normal bowel movement this morning

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