didnt really 'get' it but i thinbk she meant that he still has hfa but we/ he is coping with it and its not such a prob but she doesnt want him 'labelled' forever (Why? what benefit is it either way?). after several yrs now of him being destructive and super hyper almost all the time i think she is about to dx him with adhd As well? instead?).
sorry not too sure what the point of this post was just wanted to have a bit of a ramble and chat about it i guess. have to be out later to babysit for a friend so may not be around much this eve