Why is there no such thing as joined up services? Why are parents always left doing the diplomatic two-step with ASD issues?
DS is described as having 'social communication difficulties' pending diagnosis(6 likey Aspergers) is undergoing assessment. Long wait on the social communication disorder team list for ADOS and the like and we're not likely to be seen until next year. They are truly crap so I am trying to get a referral to someone who knows what they are doing out of our PCT area.
Anyway, in the meantime, school don't know what to do with DS. They can see issues (eye contact, not asking for help, social skills etc) but have had to be pushed to do an IEP and SA as he's 'doing well' academically.
After what feels like a long struggle, and after the intervention of the SALT team, DS has an IEP and will probably be escalated to SA plus now the OT has become involved.
The IEP is pretty crap. Weaknesses - low self-esteem, mumbling. Errr, he has social communication difficulties. Targets include eye contact etc.
I spoke to community paed who has been great and she was going to get advice from Ed psych. Thought some in-school training might help.
In the meantime, I've been working with school to establish good communication and raise awareness.
Today, I go in and teachers are all upset as Ed psych has been on the phone all stroppy about the IEP demanding they remove certain targets without explanation. No offer of training.
Why aren't they working together? Why should I have to calm ruffled feathers? The local SCD team have no literature to provide to schools and they are left to get on with it.
Not sure I'd want the ed psych involved either if this is the way she does stuff.
It's so rubbish