Oh yes, i always feel like a council inspector going to meetings with my clipboard and pen! Full on, not at all, i was thinking of recording our meetings!
Obviously a severe lack of communication, which is why the IEP really needs to be put in place. I also suspect a severe lack of reading anything regarding ds, as in previous meeting, SALT recommendations were not known (luckily i had a copy to hand ). Even during this meeting SENCO was not aware of things i had told her in writing, 2 weeks ago!
GP, no. All referrals came from HV, i avoid GP as she is of the 'dont worry he will grow out it' school of thought, even after having been told he has a disorder.
I have also avoided the school nurse, i see her as just another person to try and explain ds to.
Paeds up to this point have been useless, other than to make referrals. No understanding of social, communication or psychological or sensory problems.
Dietitian, sympathetic, but no understanding.
TAMHS, sympathetic, understanding of psychological problems, but not of why he might have these problems ie sensory.
OT, brilliant, totally understood, but couldnt do her job properly ie keep appointments, return phone calls, write a report, provide a sensory diet, go into school etc, etc. (made an official complaint)
SALT, understanding, but has taken them 3 and half years to get involved (made an official complaint). Have recently made referrals for social and communication assessment.
Currently waiting on appointments for referrals to CAMHS, feeding clinic, incontinence service.
Sorry for rant