Have just had letter saying that our request for a statutory assessment has been refused. Am raging to put it politely. It has taken 3 months for this. A load of rubbish. We did turn down a place at mainstream nursery for DS (3.4 ASD) as felt he was in no way ready and doing ok at his nursery. He has a 1:1 support there all the time from 9-12. The LA's attitude is let us see how he is when he starts fulltime school and see if the school can meet his needs. He is getting a lot worse behaviour wise and is more or less non-verbal. Even his nursery have commented on this and will back me up. Every professional report we have had done recommended 1:1 support and this includes the LA's EP, private consultant, SALT, outreach worker.
What plane are these people who make the decision on? I would love them to spend an hour at my house just to see what it is really like.
I guess first step is to cool down and demand a face to face meeting as to what to do next (perhaps take DS with me as 1 mins observation would be enough to convince any panel of his needs!. All I am trying to do is to make it easier for him and the school when he starts. I really dont need this. Apols for long rant.