Moondog, it's me, l, I've name-changed.
It's working. He comes into the kitchen, looks at the clock, points at it and says "It's afternoon!" (or morning or evening or whatever it is). He's very pleased.
It is quite complex - I had to leave the minute hand on and tell him that was "just a silly hand that goes round and round" so he has to disregard that. It would be much better on a one-hand clock.
I'll give it a bit longer, then start on the "When it's afternoon, we'll go to X" stuff. If I say that at the moment, and "X" is somewhere he really wants to go, he tends to go get his shoes and sit by the back door!
He's got a very jagged profile but I suspect he's rising 3 on general receptive language -just starting "wh" questions but nowhere on "why" - still a bit of a "gestalt" learning style - but is age-appropriate (if not superior) on understanding numbers/colours.
By the way moondog, I had that meeting with my headmistress and nursery manager about his visual learning style. I brought in the family tree, the timetimer and the calendar. I think - I hope - that they started to "get it". I think I will ask to see her again in 6 months.
One thing I do know - sitting down and showing them his visual aids was about 100 times more useful than debating whether he "has ASD" or not.
Hey Moondog, I have to see the paed. next week - shall I take the timetimer/calendar to show her too? She's community paed. - "tends to look after the renal cases" her partner says - so I'd be amazed if she'd ever seen them.........
I'm on a mission to spread the moondog word