Hi all, I'm new to chatting here, tho' I think I've been a member of Mumsnet practically since it began. My ds is 10 now, & has dyspraxia. At 4 when he started school he couldn't hold a pencil. In fact, at 9 his writing tutor was still helping him to hold a pencil correctly.
Lots of people try forms of occupational therapy, & special pens, seats, etc to help with writing. We have tried most of that & in our case nothing has made any appreciable difference.
Lots of dyspraxics are very creative, and they can be very intelligent - tho' this can be overlooked. Some teachers will at first see only a clumsy messy disorganised child who can't write!
Lots of dyspraxics enjoy swimming, & can get very good at it - it needs less co-ordination than most sports. Some top swimmers have been dyspraxic.
My ds moved to a new primary school last September, & did entrance exams for secondaries in the Autumn - which is how he was put into a remedial support group for written English and interviewed for a scholarship to an excellent secondary school on the basis of his written English in the same term!! The difference? Simply that one school managed to read his writing & the other didn't.
Computers help a lot - using a mouse has always been far easier for ds than using a pencil. When he goes on to secondary school next year we hope he will use a keyboard in class & for exams as well as for homework.