Ok Attila put a link on another thread of mamabells so she may want help as well.
Ive read the standard model letter on attilas link but im not quite sure exactly what you write and what to include.
It says i believe %%%%%%% SEN are as follows......... ?
What exactly do you say and how do you word it. Sorry a big ask. I mean my son (same as mambells probably) will suffer extreme seperation anxiety for weeks, this will lead to violent behaviour. The only way they will deal with him is by distraction, but i mean heavy distraction, probably for the whole morning (9-12 for 3 weeks) The school have said i can stay for the first week and then be weaned off with a timer, so they will be making efforts to support us. But on thinking perhaps i shouldnt stay for the first week, will this make my son worse?
He will find things like eating dinner around a table very intimidating and scarey and just find school life scarey. He is prone to violent outbrusts and i know he has odd behaviour in the way he talks to people, the school havent obviously experienced this yet.
He also has a medical condition that requires tablets to be taken, they cant be taken at a certain time of day , he would have to monitored to see how much he pees before he can have a tab. Im really worried about this as the sudden urge to pee when his meds wear off is described as having a bee in your bladder, and i think, oh god what if they tell him he has to wait to go to the toilet and he will wet himself. Ive told the school that if he peed say 3 times in an hour and the heavy water drinking would follow then he would need a tab. But if different staff are keeping an eye on him then they might miscount wees, sounds ridiculous i know but hes like a hosepipe without the meds, what goes in comes straight back out again.
"my reasons for believing that the school cannot on their own make the provision required to meet my childs needs are......"
well this is the problem, they may be ok in reception with him as theyre only 14 kids and 2 staff (originally thought it was 3 staff, i got that wrong)but last year they got a boy statemented with ASD and hes now in Year 1 where the classes are bigger. The teacher has said to me "oh he was much worse than your son", i think, hang on how do you know! aghhhh
Sorry for waffle!